As I sit here laying on my all too uncomfortable Israeli bed, I
think about how fortunate and unfortunate it is that it is only
when I get sick and have no energy to do anything productive, that
I have the time to write a journal entry. We are told over and over
again on this program that one “should not sacrifice their
education for schooling.” Thus, while living in Israel and
studying at HUC, we should be seeking adventures and planning trips
instead of doing our twelve hours of homework a week. (Can you sense
my sarcasm?) The truth of the matter is I am beginning to realize
after finishing my third week of school that I, Julia Aronson, am
in graduate school. This summer was a small taste of the intense
schooling we would be going through during the year. Most of my
days start at 8:30 a.m. and end around 6:00 p.m. Although I absolutely
love my classes, I am not quite used to the long days and the fatigue
that I feel around 7:30 p.m. Honestly, if I did not have work to
finish for the next day of school, and a fiancé who wants
to see me and hear about my day, I would be asleep before the sun
went down.
It sounds like I am complaining. However, I am really happy with
being in graduate school. I just did not realize how much change
and “getting used to” it would take. The main difference
between being at HUC and college is that I wake up happy to go to
classes every morning and enjoy sitting down to do my assignments.
The challenge that both David and I are faced with is trying to
set aside time to spend just the two of us. We have noticed that
over the past few weeks since he has started work and I have started
school that we spend a short time during dinner together and then
are off to do homework and emails. Obviously, we are both missing
each other a lot and wondering when we can find the time to see
each other besides eating.
I have also discovered that I tend to forget that we are living
in a foreign country. I think a lot of this is due to the fact that
I am feeling more comfortable here and that my Hebrew is getting
much better. The other day, I had an entire five minute conversation
all in Hebrew with a taxi driver. That is a huge accomplishment
for me! Also, I am always on campus and in a small bubble so that
as well adds to my forgetfulness.
I will try to catch you all up about what I have been doing over
the past few days and well weeks at this point:
Like I said, most days are spent at school until the evenings.
However, there are a few days where I get a bit of a break. Tuesdays
I am done with school at 1:30 which allows for me to run errands
and work out. Thursdays I am finished with classes at 11:45 and
then I opted to take an enrichment class titled, “Why I am
a Reform Jew,” because the man teaching it is the dean of
the Jerusalem HUC campus. He is one amazing person and any opportunity
someone gets to listen to him speak should take it. So, I did! I
am still trying to get myself into a routine. For instance, Wednesday
nights are my study nights with Karen and Lauren (I studied with
them all through the summer as well). We get together, along with
David, and switch off having dinner at our place or their place.
After dinner and some catch-up gossip, we spend a few hours doing
some of the homework we have assigned for the next week. This group
has really worked out for me and the girls have become very close
to me. It is also great because David is invited to their apartment
when it is time for them to cook and then he spends the time working
on the internet as we study for school.
I have spent most of my evenings working out and also doing school
work. So that I do not forget I must tell you about my experience
this Tuesday night/Wednesday morning. Every Wednesday is our Israel
Seminar day where the fourth years and first years divide into groups
to text-study and explore parts of Israel together. Three times
this year the entire class gets to go on over night adventures throughout
Israel. Last Wednesday, for instance, we went to two museums in
Tel Aviv. This Wednesday was a completely different experience.
For those that do not know, we are approaching the Jewish New Year
and Day of Atonement. The days and weeks before these holy days,
many people concentrate on forgiveness. Some congregations have
services called Slichot which means forgiveness and concentrates
solely on asking God to pardon our sins. Traditional synagogues
hold Slichot every day or sometimes every other day. We were told
that instead of our Israel Seminar during the day this Wednesday,
that we would be meeting at HUC at 3:30 in the morning to attend
Slichot services at a Spanish-style synagogue in the French Hill
quarter. I was so excited for this opportunity. A friend of mine,
Rachel, decided to get together some of the girls and have a “sleep-over.”
The reason why I put that word in quotes is because we did NOT sleep
at all! We were up watching movies and eating junk food until we
had to be ready to meet at HUC. It was so much fun just hanging
out with girls and getting to know them better.
After meeting at HUC in the middle of the night, we hopped on
bus to attend services. These services started at 4:15 in the morning
and ended around 6:15 a.m. The women were separated by the men (this
is a traditional Jewish custom) and we were to sit up in a balcony.
Everything was in Hebrew and the prayers were done extremely fast.
The coolest part of the service was the amount of times the shofar
was blown. It really was as if the shofar was a morning alarm to
wake everyone up. I have to admit, it did not do that great of a
job. (hahahahah!) After services we went back to HUC to have breakfast
and de-brief from the evening/morning. It was an extremely unique
experience and I really enjoyed taking part in it.
That being said, I am STILL trying to catch up on sleep. David
and I are renting a car tomorrow and heading to the Sea of Galilee
and Tiberius area for a little adventure. Then we are meeting my
Israeli friend, Lior, for Shabbat in Haifa where he will be showing
us around and we get to meet his family and friends. It was time
for us to get away from the bubble for a little while and explore
the foreign country we are in. I hope to write soon before leaving
for the States on Wednesday for Ashley’s wedding, YEAH! There
will be much to talk about I am sure!
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